Sides of humans

Something that needs to be understood is that there’s an other side to everything. Just like good and evil, light and dark, there’s an other side to everything. And I don’t understand why people don’t see this fact.

We say he/she left, but then we don’t understand that we have also been in their lives. We just blame someone for being rude, but we don’t realize that we have also been that someone to somebody. We just talk about having been teased by somebody, but forget that we have also teased someone. We just feel hurt when somebody criticizes them but we don’t see that they too have criticized others.

I don’t understand the fact that when somebody does something to you, it’s hurting or it’s painful but when you do the same thing to somebody, it’s just for fun or it’s the “right thing” to do.

Who cares if the kid you brushed past today in the race fell down and hurt himself? It doesn’t matter because you won. Who cares if your words hurt others? It just doesn’t matter because you said what you felt was right. Then that means that whenever someone else says something to you, you just have to see that the other person said it because he felt it was right. The next time, before blaming or criticizing somebody for doing something, just remember that at one stage in your life, you have been or will be in the same position that the other person is in.